Max is cautious around strangers, especially men. I have a new friend
and Max is fairly comfortable with him in our yard, but Max gets nervous
when he comes in my house still. I have a process I use to get Max
comfortable with my friends in the house and he's progressing well. (For
repair people etc, I just hold him.)
My friend, C, was sitting
on the couch and talking about something emotionally difficult. Max
worked his way into C's lap so C could/would pet him. Max still seemed
nervous and was shedding (a stress sign) but curled into him more and
more. Later, he went almost to sleep in my friend's lap.
Usually
when I have guests over sitting on the couch, Max moves back and forth
between getting attention from me and guests, gets too stressed and
backs off in a short period of time, then comes back later.
I'm
wondering how to interpret this and what, if anything I might do better
in the future. Max seemed stressed, but was also able to remove himself
from the situation, move over closer to me, go to his kennel, etc. Other
than the shedding, he wasn't exhibiting any of his usual stress signs
(licking his feet or scratching his neck.) I don't think he was
shutdown, because as soon as we moved him, he was acting normally. But
it is really important to me that I do keep Max under threshold or at
minimum learn from it if I let things go too far.
If you have any input, please share it in the comments section.
Case Study - Overwhelmed or Empathetic
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